My approach is based in the understanding we are creating our experience for ourselves.
In one to one conversation or groups, I endeavour to speak from a powerful place of love and trust. To offer those I work with the opportunity to hear or feel that within (or underneath). It was this that was most helpful to me when I was dealing with, not only challenging situations, but also feelings.
There are teachings and explanations to explore with this – that’s often the content of the conversation in my one to ones or groups.
The ‘work’ then becomes to allow more of this beautiful feeling, building faith and learning to navigate life from there. I am there to support prioritising it and guiding you to find the permissions that work for you. Living from this place is often called alignment and it feels like joy!
It is the most worthwhile thing I have ever given my attention to, and it continues to be the most exciting.
I have moved from suicidal depression and a body making tumours to a life that feels overflowing with love and vitality – and I know there’s so much more!
Guiding other people to this way of living is one of my greatest joys! Watching them fall in love with themselves and life is humbling and delicious.
With over 8 years of experience of teaching the Three Principles of Sydney Banks, I now combine this with a deep understanding of the Law of Attraction as described by Abraham Hicks and Bashar. Creating more limitless living.
There's often a catalyst for change and mine came as suicidal depression and disease
I was deeply depressed and chronically anxious, my entire experience was consumed by self-criticism, and I thought this was normal.
I also had cancer spreading through my body and a one-year-old daughter I was struggling to love. This seemed less normal.
When I realised with heaviness and a sort of relief that I did not want to survive, some part of me nudged me out of the the shame I felt and into a phone call with my lifelong friend and alternative practitioner Ian Watson.
And through his seeing me in my wholeness and the subsequent work I did with Ian and his colleague Carol Boroughs I experienced a massive shift in perspective. Which was all that was needed to have a completely different experience, and what I now facilitate in others.
EVERYTHING changed - I fell in love with life!
And with my daughter, and I started living as me.
Paradoxically, despite the nature of my disease and the joy I had connect to I felt less need to control everything. I breezed through cancer treatments with little attachment to the outcome.
I believe this was instrumental in my recovery. That loving ourselves deeply and allowing ourselves to BE fully is the best thing we can do for our health.
I found I could give myself permission to live, to love, and to feel and not only would I survive my feelings, but I would thrive.
Images top to bottom - Radiotherapy for brain tumour, immunotherapy infusions, snowy Christmas on steroids